Ganesh mantra
ॐ गं गणपतये नमः
Om Gam Ganapataye Namah
Meaning: Om; gam, the seed syllable of Ganapati: salutation to Ganapati.
When and how: At the start, before the clay Ganesha, 11 times. The seed syllable is explained in the Ganapati Atharvashirsha.
Hartalika sankalp
मम समस्तपापक्षयपूर्वकसप्तजन्मराज्याखण्डितसौभाग्यादिवृद्धये उमामहेश्वरप्रीत्यर्थं हरितालिकाव्रतमहं करिष्ये ।
Mama samasta-papa-kshaya-purvaka-sapta-janma-rajya-akhandita-saubhagyadi-vriddhaye Umamaheshvara-prityartham Haritalika-vratam aham karishye
Meaning: That all my sins be removed and that plenty, unbroken married happiness and every blessing may grow through seven lives, and to please Uma and Maheshvara, I shall keep the Haritalika vrat.
When and how: The sankalp as the Vrataraj gives it, said holding water, rice and a flower. A family priest adds the place, the day, your name and gotra before it; you may add your wish in your own words.
Uma-Maheshvara mantra
ॐ उमामहेश्वराभ्यां नमः
Om Umamaheshvarabhyam Namah
Meaning: Om: salutation to Uma and Maheshvara, together.
When and how: While offering flowers and bel leaves to the pair; 108 times on a mala if you wish, for harmony in the marriage.
Names of Parvati
ॐ उमायै नमः । ॐ गौर्यै नमः । ॐ पार्वत्यै नमः । ॐ जगद्धात्र्यै नमः । ॐ जगत्प्रतिष्ठायै नमः । ॐ शान्तिरूपिण्यै नमः । ॐ देव्यै नमः । ॐ लोकवन्दितायै नमः । ॐ काल्यै नमः । ॐ शिवायै नमः । ॐ भवान्यै नमः । ॐ रुद्राण्यै नमः । ॐ शर्वाण्यै नमः । ॐ मङ्गलदात्र्यै नमः ॥
Om Umayai Namah. Om Gauryai Namah. Om Parvatyai Namah. Om Jagaddhatryai Namah. Om Jagatpratishthayai Namah. Om Shantirupinyai Namah. Om Devyai Namah. Om Lokavanditayai Namah. Om Kalyai Namah. Om Shivayai Namah. Om Bhavanyai Namah. Om Rudranyai Namah. Om Sharvanyai Namah. Om Mangaladatryai Namah.
Meaning: Salutation to Uma; to Gauri, the fair one; to Parvati, daughter of the mountain; to the nurse of the world; to the ground the world stands on; to her whose form is peace; to the Goddess; to her whom the worlds revere; to Kali; to Shiva's consort, the auspicious one; to Bhavani; to Rudrani; to Sharvani; to the giver of all that is auspicious.
When and how: In the Vrataraj's Haritalika puja each name honours one part of the image, from the feet up to the head; at home you may offer a flower, sindoor or akshat with each name.
Names of Shiva
ॐ हराय नमः । ॐ महेश्वराय नमः । ॐ शम्भवे नमः । ॐ शूलपाणये नमः । ॐ पिनाकधृषे नमः । ॐ शिवाय नमः । ॐ पशुपतये नमः । ॐ महादेवाय नमः ॥
Om Haraya Namah. Om Maheshvaraya Namah. Om Shambhave Namah. Om Shulapanaye Namah. Om Pinakadhrishe Namah. Om Shivaya Namah. Om Pashupataye Namah. Om Mahadevaya Namah.
Meaning: Salutation to Hara, who takes sorrow away; to the great lord; to Shambhu, giver of joy; to him who holds the trident; to the bearer of the bow Pinaka; to Shiva, the auspicious; to the lord of all creatures; to the great god.
When and how: The eight names the Shiva Purana gives for worshipping a clay linga, one for each step from gathering the clay to the farewell; many families simply say one name with each offering to the linga: water, sandal paste, bel leaves, dhatura and flowers.
Panchakshari
ॐ नमः शिवाय
Om Namah Shivaya
Meaning: Om: salutation to Shiva.
When and how: With the bel leaves, and again and again through the night's jagran. The words namah shivaya come from the Shri Rudram of the Yajurveda.
Prayer to Gauri
सर्वमङ्गलमाङ्गल्ये शिवे सर्वार्थसाधिके ।
शरण्ये त्र्यम्बके गौरि नारायणि नमोऽस्तु ते ॥
Sarva-mangala-mangalye shive sarvartha-sadhike
sharanye tryambake gauri narayani namo'stu te
Meaning: O auspiciousness of all that is auspicious, Shiva's own, who brings every aim to fulfilment, our refuge, three-eyed Gauri, Narayani: salutation to you.
When and how: At the close of the Parvati puja, asking her blessing on the marriage and the home. It is from the eleventh chapter of the Devi Mahatmya.
Karpuragauram
कर्पूरगौरं करुणावतारं संसारसारं भुजगेन्द्रहारम् ।
सदा वसन्तं हृदयारविन्दे भवं भवानीसहितं नमामि ॥
Karpura-gauram karunavataram samsara-saram bhujagendra-haram
sada vasantam hridayaravinde bhavam bhavani-sahitam namami
Meaning: White as camphor, compassion embodied, the essence of the world, with the king of serpents for a garland, ever dwelling in the lotus of the heart: I bow to Bhava, Shiva, together with Bhavani, Parvati.
When and how: Sung after the aarti. It bows to Shiva with Bhavani beside him, which is what Teej is about.
Aarti Shiv Aarti: Om Jai Shiv Omkara the full text
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा, स्वामी जय शिव ओंकारा।
ब्रह्मा, विष्णु, सदाशिव, अर्द्धांगी धारा॥
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा॥
एकानन चतुरानन पंचानन राजे।
हंसासन गरुड़ासन वृषवाहन साजे॥
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा॥
दो भुज चार चतुर्भुज दसभुज अति सोहे।
त्रिगुण रूप निरखते त्रिभुवन जन मोहे॥
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा॥
अक्षमाला वनमाला, मुण्डमाला धारी।
चंदन मृगमद सोहै, भाले शशिधारी॥
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा॥
श्वेताम्बर पीताम्बर बाघम्बर अंगे।
सनकादिक गरुणादिक भूतादिक संगे॥
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा॥
कर के मध्य कमंडल चक्र त्रिशूलधारी।
सुखकारी दुखहारी जगपालन कारी॥
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा॥
ब्रह्मा विष्णु सदाशिव जानत अविवेका।
प्रणवाक्षर में शोभित ये तीनों एका॥
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा॥
त्रिगुणस्वामी जी की आरति जो कोइ नर गावे।
कहत शिवानंद स्वामी सुख संपति पावे॥
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा॥
ॐ जय शिव ओंकारा, स्वामी जय शिव ओंकारा।
ब्रह्मा, विष्णु, सदाशिव, अर्द्धांगी धारा॥
Om jai Shiv Omkara, swami jai Shiv Omkara.
Brahma, Vishnu, Sadashiv, arddhangi dhara.
Om jai Shiv Omkara.
Ekanan chaturanan panchanan raje.
Hansasan Garudasan vrishvahan saje.
Om jai Shiv Omkara.
Do bhuj char chaturbhuj dasbhuj ati sohe.
Trigun roop nirakhte tribhuvan jan mohe.
Om jai Shiv Omkara.
Akshamala vanmala, mundmala dhari.
Chandan mrigmad sohai, bhale shashidhari.
Om jai Shiv Omkara.
Shvetambar pitambar baghambar ange.
Sanakadik Garunadik bhutadik sange.
Om jai Shiv Omkara.
Kar ke madhya kamandal chakra trishooldhari.
Sukhkari dukhhari jagpalan kari.
Om jai Shiv Omkara.
Brahma Vishnu Sadashiv janat aviveka.
Pranavakshar mein shobhit ye teenon eka.
Om jai Shiv Omkara.
Trigunswami ji ki aarti jo koi nar gave.
Kahat Shivanand Swami sukh sampati pave.
Om jai Shiv Omkara.
Om jai Shiv Omkara, swami jai Shiv Omkara.
Brahma, Vishnu, Sadashiv, arddhangi dhara.
Text as it is commonly sung. The Gita Press Aarti Sangrah opens 'Jai Shiv Omkara, bhaj Shiv Omkara' with the refrain 'Om Har Har Mahadev', and prints 'tinon roop' for 'trigun roop', 'Tripurari Kansari karmala dhari' for 'chandan mrigmad sohai, bhale shashidhari', 'kar madhye sukamandalu chakra shooldhari' for 'kar ke madhya kamandal chakra trishooldhari' and 'bhanat Shivanand Swami manvanchhit pavai' for 'kahat Shivanand Swami sukh sampati pave'. Printed text